Imagine for a moment that you received an email or a letter in the mail from someone regarding a loved one, better yet about your child. In this email it described in explicit detail your child’s sexual exploits and things that no parent should nor would ever want to hear or see regarding their child. What would you do?
This week a well known or shall I say somewhat popular “plus sized” escort was exposed in just that way. Her mother received an email telling her that her daughter was a NY prostitute and gave details on every female partner she had (has), places she lived, a client who allegedly happens to f*ck transsexual prostitutes unprotected, blow jobs without condoms, Craigslist sex ads and the list goes on and on. There’s more. This email was also forwarded to all of her clients as well as former and present partners, her building management, NYPD and even people who don’t know her (like myself). Did you think I was finished? This is just the beginning. In a separate email this escorts real name, social security number, current address, previous addresses, town her mother resides in, personal business (Tax ID, attorney info etc), escort aliases (she worked under numerous names), medical history (cosmetic surgeries), financial problems, real names of some of the girls she has worked with or was associated with including their websites (putting those girls in harms ways).
Could you imagine your mother reading an email that said things like you are bi-sexual, you specialized in two and three girl dates, had reviews written about your sexual exploits and actually named the review boards and sent links to your elegant, well-written websites where your photos were shown and your rates for sex were clearly displayed, places where you advertised, a link to a legal brothel you worked at in Las Vegas with numerous pictures of yourself listed, nude photos of your out of shape body that were showed without the magic of photo shop displaying your actual body, Craigslist posts that were written by you such as "Hot Blonde Bombshell Seeks XL Thick Cock 4Fun Tonite", informing her that you had been robbed several months ago by a client and physically assaulted by a former female roommate? Could you flipping imagine your mother reading and seeing all of this? I can. I can imagine it. I can see my mother now having a heart attack, put to death because of my poor decisions. I could hear her asking herself before she died “what did I do wrong?” She would blame herself; she would think it was her fault that her daughter was a prostitute, she would think back and try to see if there were any signs. She would ask why and wonder why I have gone to the best schools, had a mother and a father, had a lot of love and even attends (I’m only out for the semester) one of the top graduate schools in the country and would wonder why her intelligent, beautiful daughter would resort to such a immoral thing. I thought about my answer and I don’t have one. I would stay silent because saying I do it because I can and I enjoy it would not only be cocky, sick and selfish, but it just wouldn’t be true. The truth is I don’t have a good reason and I can’t articulate why I do it, I just do.
There is so much more that was in the emails, but to protect this escort I will not disclose anything else. Just know that what I have written doesn’t even come close to what was actually revealed. Of course there is a back story as to why this escort was exposed and it goes way beyond envy and animosity, but lips are remaining sealed. They say there are 6 degrees of separation, in this case I am separated by 1 degree with two different people. Thankfully, neither of the ladies I know are affected by this horrific email.
This is the reality of what can and does happen if you decide to enter this industry. You still don’t believe it could happen to you? What if I told you the person who sent this information to this woman's mother, clients, friends, escort associates, escort community (yes, there is one), strangers, building management and NYPD was someone she worked with (intimately), someone she trusted... a former FRIEND.
April 12, 2008
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6 comments:
You are not going to tell us about WHY the girl did it? That's the most important part.
I've heard such horror stories coming out of every industry -- even the most boring ones. It could just as easily have happened to a police person too. We are all at risk for this with the Internet. It only take one looney bin to turn your life upside down.
My weirdo parents could handle everything except the part of a physical assault. My physical and mental well-being are the most important to them, not how I earn a living. I think being a writer comes second in line to being a prostitute, anyway. teeheehee
Hi Jaden,
I don't know why the girl sent the emails. Right now no one seems to know, but whatever it was it had to be something horrible because no one would send emails like that without a good reason. I do know that the girl who was exposed did other things to women in the past (stealing clients, making up lies about other escorts to hurt their business etc) so whatever she did to this girl must have been BAD. Oh well, what goes around comes around. Karma baby.
I have a great story I'm posting next week after I complete some things. It's a feel good post (hopefully everything turns out as planned). I can't wait to share it with everyone. Have a great week.
XOXO-Brunette Bombshell
How can someone be so vindictive, this is why you should keep some things to yourself. You and only YOU should know certain events of your life. There is not that much envy in the universe that would make me do something like that. Your family and others will forgive and possibly forget (because they have some stuff they do not want you to know about them) but you will always be given the side eye and have that feeling of: I know their thinking about that email, probably saved it/printed it and passed it around.
I just can't imagine it, I would be horrified.
Hello A,
I would be MORTIFIED. I would have to move OUT OF THE COUNTRY and even there I wouldn't feel safe. lol
Vindictive? There's more to this story and as awful as this sounds I have an evil side as well and if this girl (the exposed one) has done what I think she did to the other girl I would have did this PLUS more.
The moral of the story is keep your personal business to yourself and if there's anything you wouldn't want the world to know either don't do it or don't tell (anyone). Another option is to create a blog and write everything anonymously.
XOXO-BBomb
GIRRRRRRLLLLLLL,
I almost passed out reading that! When my dad found out that I was dancing at a topless club, he didn't speak to me for over a year and only then because my grandfather died. If my mother ever found out it would KILL her. i wouldn't be able to get far enough away! She would die and probably come back to kill me. I'm like you, from appearance and what my daily life enatiled with University and work you would NEVER suspect that I worked in the sex industry. But I did have a friend who would try and slip little slick comments about me stripping when my mom was around, needless to say we aren't friends anymore.And to this day I'm still not sure who told my dad.
Hey Anon I love your new name "anonymous stripper"
Perfect timing I just got in from the bar. I live in Boston we have bars on every corner.
I wish that girl would have tried to talk slick around my mother she would've had me f*cked up. I would have whooped that ass. You don't know me very well, but I can get hood and it's not an act.
I know you must have been devastated when your father found out, but he was upset with you only because he loves you and wants the best for you. You mother is like mine, she doesn't play.
You're right my friends would never believe that I am an escort, just like my clients wouldn't believe I say "You've got me f*cked up" or "hood". lol So, I understand what you're saying about appearances.
Double life. lol
Diamond (yeah I called you Diamond lol Penee and I refer to you as that) I'm glad to have you back. I thought you took me serious when I said to read my Blog on Sundays. Just Kidding (nahh I'm serious)
I better go to bed, I'm writing too much and I'm not in my right mind. Drunk typing is worst than drunk dialing because you leave proof.
Hold on I need to see what post you responded to...Ok, I'm back.
Well Diamond I'm taking my ass to bed. TD&H is yelling at me because I'm typing too loud and he's trying to sleep. How the hell can one type too loud?
Good night mama. XOXO-Brunette Bombshell
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